Forgiveness is important, whether you stay married or not. NOT for her, but for you. Living with her actions can make you resentful and bitter and that isn't fair on YOU. While I was mortified, it still hasn't stopped me from doing the same thing every time he's out of town. And I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one who has little habits that I keep from my other half. Just to be positive (because I really, really don’t want to give up my onesie), I took a survey of my married girlfriends. Here's what I discovered (the names have been changed to protect the not-so-innocent):

When a sub is giving you oral sex, she wants a reward or a climax. Lauren, 30, Bristol, straight, solicitor

Metro bloggers Miranda Kane and Bibi Lynch co-host the show, chatting to a different guest about all things sex and relationships each week. Thanks to pornography, facials a more commonplace sexual fantasy. While ejaculating on a face may seem innocuous, it actually carries a somewhat high risk factor. If you plan to come on someone's face or let someone come on yours, you ought to know how to do it safely. The Problem I don't think someone can really rebuild the loving trust there USED to be after something like this.

To break up or forgive ... is your decision to be made and whatever you decide is a correct decision for you. The image of what you saw her doing will, indeed, linger in your mind for a very long time, perhaps for ever, and it will always be a trigger of anxiety, regret, anger, disgust... Some people can live with that and some don't. If you are a guy who can't then cut your losses and divorce. If you forgive her, which I really don't think you will be able to, she probably will know then that it is okay to do this time and time again. She will just be better at hiding it the next time. Some people have no morals. Yes I no that you love her, but as yourself did she really love you when she was wrapped around another guy?And there may be more. Some wives like being able to feel it, and not all can feel ejaculation internally. Some like to see it (yes, some women are visual as well). Some just don’t want to walk around all day feeling like they’re “leaking”. So, there are lot of times where ejaculating on your wife may be beneficial. It’s do to with humiliation. That’s why I don’t ejaculate on her face if we’re in a serious relationship. Nicos, 24, Romania, pansexual, works in tech support